My Connection To Child Play

                                                  My Connections To Play







                                                      Latarsha Mitchell
                                                      


                                                      Doctor Joyce Myers



                                                             March 25, 2016




During the time when I was a child. play time meant fun time. During recess, my teacher would always give the kids the option to what they would like to do for fun. some of the things I loved to do as a child during play time was to play " Jacks ". Jacks was a game when my friends would enjoy playing with each other during play time. things that were fun made us more anxious to do what was needed to have play time. interacting was another idea of play time , getting to now different peers that were surrounding us as a child.Thinking back when I was kindergarten, play time was very. Being a child that was always sheltered under my family, it really help me mentally to open up to others such as my teacher, and as well as my classmates. I feel that play time can be therapeutic for children as well as there parents. this also gave me as well as other kids the opportunity  to gain a more close and positive relationship with their family, this is called " Bonding time ". As a child, we all should learn the importance of play time. it is much needed in a child's life, it gives the child the child the opportunity to be a child. Also develop communication skills which will allow them to respond to others as they grow up.

During the time when I was a child, in school the teachers always encouraged the ids to participate in play time. they felt like that was our bonding time. playing kick ball, Mr.Potato Head, Hop scotch, and slide  we games that were very hands on with others. just to name a few , these were the games that was very fun as well as some what education as well. In today's time play time is much different. in somethings it still show some similarity.today in some class room their are things provided to kids that would allow them to isolate themselves from others such as Dolls. A single item such as this gives the child the time to take her play time to her alone time among her self, In which personal I feel is not a good idea. As a preschool ,it strengthen their academic focus. Play maintain a vital role ,Considering the limited time in a preschool setting and the pressure for success.playing time starts by sitting next to another child, often someone with similar similarities as well. This action gives the teacher the opportunity to see the way to guide her to plan for how the children are going to be engaged in play time. Teachers Play a very  Important role in supporting play time. Play is a very universal phenomenon and serves both natural and biological function throughout play time. Children has the opportunity to learn about ever changing world. theirs a quote by ( Elkind 2003 ) . It says that , Every teacher and families often view the value of play in different ways. Early childhood teachers say that " Play is a child's work ". some parent's ask , " Did my child just play all day ? it stated i the quote that play is sometimes seen as the opposite of teacher -directed directed an organized activities.

There are a few quotes that I feel would go with this topic on " Connection To Play ".
one, No matter how old you get , If you keep the desire to be create , you are keeping a mind to stimulate  creativity, one must develop the childlike inclination for play and the child . there is no such things as genius , some children are just less damaged than others. another quote : represent the purest , the quintessence of honesty, of, God. When you look as child's eyes you you see just pure innocence.


                                  reference
  quotes about play ( 308 quotes ) WWW.good reads .com

  WWW.Schoolchildren/playtime-time.com
www.apa.org/pubs/lournals/features/bul-a0029321 pdf.
www.the importance of play .edu








                                                      

                                                Relationships/ reflections
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In a relationship , usually both partners share some common interests and are able to enjoy activities together. doing things that the both enjoy doing together is well and it makes the relationship stronger, even last longer. but also, with doing that it does not allow the individual to have its own separate interest, too!  Ina equal relationship , partners can enjoy doing things together while respecting each others desires to pursue  other interests as well. which may includes hobbies, hanging out with friends, or whatever makes the couple happy.
 being in a relationship you also find out the challenges in a relationship as far as who would pay the bill. do you want to pay the bills ? what religion are you ? etc. from my experience, I have learned that in the early part of the relationship it is a must to find out the persons likes,  dislikes, religion, and rather if they are open to help with finances. these things matter in a relationship. this also helps you to find out rather you are comparable or not. In one of my relationships I had to learn the hard way when it came down to the finance part of the relationship. some men feel that they want to pay what they want and not what they need, which is not fair. yes, I know that can both both ways. Money can be a real problem in the relationship. Even though discussing money might feel awkward, it is a necessary conversation. deciding on who gonna pay what and what is the amount to pay would keep down confusion in the relationship when it comes to finances. However you and your partner choose to divide ( or not to divide ) paying for things like dates, family events, bills, and gifts. these things need to have a limitation on it and decide who's gonna pay.

also, In a relationship it all the time needs to be respect . this is important in a healthy ,equal relationship. feeling " Safe " , is important too. the two people who are in the relationship shouldn't feel as if their life is in danger at any time. know one in the relationship should feel that their opinion should put them in any danger. both parties I have learned should be able to express how they feel and think to their partner. if expressing the things you like and sharing your thoughts brings your partner into a rage and a unhealthy situation, this here alone throws up a " Red Flag ".
dealing with working in the Early Child Hood profession, It can sometimes bring stress into the relationship. within my  personal relation, it sometimes allow me to bring stress, dealing with kids,and their family can sometimes put you in a situation that allows you to feel drained. in my relationship their are times when i get with my spouse, it causes me to bring out my frustration on him. but dealing with this, I allow myself to calm down have me some me time, and then apologize and make up. accepting your wrong doing in a relationship and apologizing for it shows your partner that you can admit when you are wrong. this makes a healthy and long relationship between the two.